As the seasons change and the days get warmer and longer we all have a tendency to want to come out of hibernation and socialize a bit more. During this time of year we also see an increase in school activities like the prom and graduation. With these celebratory events come parties. Webster's Dictionary defines party as "a social gathering". Most people would agree that the purpose of a party is to have a good time, mingle with friends and sometimes celebrate an occasion. There are a few things that should be kept in mind when you are hosting a party. All in an effort to ensure a safe and enjoyable party experience for everyone.

Hosting a party can be great fun and you'll want to give your guest a memorable event for all the right reasons. As a host, it is your responsibility to ensure your guests party safely!

Make your party by invitation only – this will discourage people from just showing up.

Make the start and finish time clear on your invitation.

Clearly state on your invitation if the party is no alcohol permitted, BYO (bring your own) alcohol or whether alcohol will be supplied. If you don’t allow people to BYO it is easier to control the amount of alcohol that is served. Alcohol should not be served if minors are attending the party.

As the host, you should refrain from drinking so that any problems can be dealt with effectively if they arise.

It’s your party and you have the right to ask people to leave.

Enlist the help of adult friends to supervise your party so that you have eyes and ears everywhere. Ensure adequate supervision around the swimming pool, basement or wooded areas.

Let your neighbours know about your party in advance as this may reduce concerns about parking or noise later.

Keep noise to a minimum, especially late in the evening.

Plan ahead for what to do if a guest becomes sick or intoxicated. Have a first aid kit handy and emergency numbers in case you need them quickly.

As the parent of a party-goer you will want to speak with the party host and find out how many people will be attending the party, who and how many will be supervising the party, will alcohol be available, will food be served and what time the party is expected to finish. Don't be afraid to ask the host for phone numbers and other details that are important to you. If possible drop your child off at the party, meet the hosts and arrange to pick them up at a certain time.

Talk to your child about how to have a good time at a party without participating in risky behaviors like taking pills or drinking alcohol or leaving the party with other friends.

As a parent, one of your jobs is to ensure the safety of your children even when they are not in your care. By reaching out to other parents and showing your concern you send a clear message to your kids, "what you do matters to me and I want to keep you from harm."

Having fun, socializing and celebrating are all important ways to interact and have fun. Doing so safely is equally important.

Kimberly Friedman is Associate Director of Seven Valleys Council on Alcoholism and Substance Abuse Services